Saturday, February 13, 2016

Weekly Wrap-Up: Snowy February

It's been quiet around here lately. Duncan worked furiously during the last week of January to finish his National History Day project by the Feb. 1 deadline, and then we basically collapsed for a day or so. He and a friend entered a website about the Battle of the Bulge, but what made it really interesting is that both of their grandfathers—now in their 90s— fought in the Battle of the Bulge. They had interviews with them, lots of photos, quotes, etc. It was a fantastic experience: the research, the interviews, and compiling the information into a website.  They'll go in early March to talk about the project and find out if they win anything.

Since then, we've been trying to catch up with everything that got totally ignored during the last couple weeks of January. We were so lucky to have two of our co-op class days canceled because of snow. It isn't that we don't like co-op—we love it, actually—but it's just so lovely to have an unexpected day off.

Yesterday, Duncan and I and my friend Caroline and her son took advantage of a snow day by heading down to North Carolina to ski at Cataloochee for the day. It was super cold (15 degrees) for us, but the snow was great and the slopes were lovely. And we were really proud of ourselves for being so spontaneous!

Duncan's been skiing on Sundays since January. Ober Gatlinburg, our closest ski resort, has a great package deal for homeschoolers. We've taken advantage of it for several years now with all the kids (and Randy and me too). This year, however,  just Duncan and his friend Patrick have been skiing. I think it's Duncan's favorite PE credit.

While Duncan was skiing last week, Randy and I went for an afternoon hike. It was a beautiful day in the 50s. We're both working on the Smokies Centennial Challenge to hike 100 miles in 2016. This was my first this year, so I have about 95 to go!

And not much else is new around here. I'm still adjusting to life with just one child at home, although Jesse stops by once a week or so for dinner and conversation. I miss my daughter fiercely, but I'm so happy that she's having a great college experience.

Next week I turn 50, and that's just weird. But I did laugh heartily when I got my AARP card in the mail.

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Friday, January 22, 2016

American History Personal History Project

Teaching American History at our homeschooling co-op has been an incredible experience for me thus far this year. I'm co-teaching with a friend, and a third friend is teaching the government portion of the class. Since history is a full credit and government is a half credit, we focus on history for the majority of our class time each week (about 50 minutes), and she does government for 30 minutes.

At the beginning of first semester, we handed out the "Personal History Project" assignment to the students. We intended to have them do their presentations before Christmas break; however, we decided mid-semester to move the due date to January.

This past week, we heard the first half of the presentations. Students shared recipes (including biscuits with chocolate gravy--YUM!-- and a fantastic spinach/sausage soup; read interviews; and even shared stories they'd written about relatives. We've had so many messages from parents thanking us for doing this assignment—that they and their kids discovered all kinds of family history they didn't know about.

Below is the actual assignment. We created this largely from combining and reworking a couple of examples that we found on the internet. I am terribly apologetic to those teachers who originally created the assignments, but, as of yet, I haven't relocated the sources. Our students are in high school, but this can easily be used for a younger audience.


American History: Personal History Project

This project will be due on _____. You will be required to present ONE component of the paper to the class. For example, you might choose a recipe to make (from Part 2, option 2D) and share the food and the story with the class, or you might want to share Part 1, option 2A by bringing in the objects. You should plan on sharing for no more than 4 minutes in class.


There are three sections to your project.

1. Cover: Your project must begin with a cover that visually conveys something about you:  a collage, a drawing, a collection of family photos, etc.

2. The Tree (see directions below)

3. The Roots (see directions below

• each component should begin on a new page with the title at the top

• you may use as many illustrations, scanned photos, art work, etc. that you like

• all pages should be neatly stapled together (or otherwise bound) and turned in as one complete booklet.

The Tree

(You must do #1. You can pick one from the options in #2.)

1. The Day I Was Born: Research the day you were born.

A. Describe three significant events that happened on that day (200 words).

B. List:

• the music popular song that day

• the top three books on the New York Times Best Seller list for the date closest to your birthday

2. Choose ONE of these (either A or B):

A. Show and Tell: Choose five objects that reveal who you are, what your place is in your family, and/or that epitomize your family. For example, you might choose a pair of hiking boots if your family enjoys hiking together. You should take a picture of each object and include the photo and an explanation.


B. The Band: Choose a piece of music that could be your personal theme song. Copy down the lyrics (if it has lyrics) give the title, artist and then in two paragraphs explain why this piece of music is meaningful to you and what it says about your personality and beliefs.

The Roots

(You must do #1. You can pick three from the options in #2.)

1. Where I Come From: Complete a family tree. Illustrate, in whatever fashion you like, your family tree. A simple google search for “family tree template” will give you ideas. You can use a template or be creative and design your own tree. Include relatives back to (at a minimum) your grandparents. Include uncles, aunts and cousins. If you like, include significant family friends whom you would describe as being family. If you are adopted, include what you know about your biological parents (if anything) or focus on your adoptive family.  You will need to talk to your parents/others to find out this information.

2. Choose three of the following:

A. Interview your oldest surviving relative. If you can, do this in person. If impossible, you may do this by email, phone, or letter. You must ask at least 20 questions. You can use these questions and/or come up with your own.

Where did you grow up?

What were two highlights of your childhood?

Tell me about your best childhood friend?

Tell me a story about school?

Tell me about your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

 What was your favorite and least favorite subject in school?

Tell me a story about your senior year in high school.

What kind of training or college did you complete?

What has been your favorite job and why?

What has been the most interesting adventure in your life?

What historical event has made the most different in your life?

Explain how a technological invention has changed your life.

Who was most influential in your life as a teen? As an adult?

What do you like best about your family relationships?

Tell me about one of your family relationships.

Tell me about your favorite home.

What would you do differently?

What makes you most proud in your life?

What is your motivation when you get up in the morning?

You can write this as a story/essay or you can write it out in interview format. For example:

Question: Where did you grow up?

Answer: I grew up in Geneva, New York, a small town in upstate New York.

B. Family Trunk: Most families have storage places where old mementos are gathered. Explore your storage area, an old trunk or grandparents’ memory boxes or basements, a china cabinet, etc. and see what stories unfold when you discover and ask about certain objects. Choose two objects of particular interest and discuss what it is and why it’s significant in two paragraphs. Include photos of the objects. (250-300 words)

C. Traditions: Every family has important traditions. Choose a tradition and/or a holiday that is important in your culture and write one page describing all the elements of this custom or holiday. (250-300 words)

D. What’s Cookin’?: Choose a favorite family recipe and prepare it. Copy down the recipe, explain the origins of and/or stories about the recipe (e.g., “This was the only dessert my grandmother knew how to make”) and write a detailed description of your attempts to recreate this family masterpiece in the kitchen.

E. What’s Their Story? Pick a family member from your family tree and either tell a story about that member OR research the time period and write a fictionalized “day-in-the-life” story. This should be someone in a past generation, not you or your siblings/ cousins.


The students were given four minutes each to present some aspect of their project; however, most students took only about 2-3 minutes.

I'm so thrilled with this project Below are a few examples of what was included in their projects:

I enjoyed seeing everyone's family trees; this is Duncan's. One of my favorite projects in college was an extensive family tree for sociology—way back before was around!

These are samples from the "Show and Tell" component in the first section. I love the different ways that the students interpreted this.

Lots of students read interviews that they'd done with an older family member. So interesting!

Nearly every student shared a recipe—we have some great new ones to try!

This is one of my favorites. The page included photos of the tombstone, which had a beautiful poem on it written by his grandfather.

This is a fantastic project for history classes or for families to do! The stories captured within the pages are truly treasures, and having a teen make those connections to the past is invaluable.

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Friday, January 15, 2016

Weekly Wrap-Up: Back At It

The middle of the January comes as expected: dreary, chilly, and gray. I am thrilled that I have nowhere I must go today.

Not much has been happening these first couple of weeks of the 2016. We had a retirement party for our longtime Scoutmaster last week. There were loads of families there, including many young men who earned their Eagle rank under Shane.

The top picture is just a sampling of the guys who got their Eagle while Shane was Scoutmaster,  including Jesse on the far left. Most of the guys in the top picture are in college now (or, in Jesse's case, graduated from college). There are several more Eagle Scouts who weren't able to come to the party; our troop has a history of having the majority of boys earn that rank. The bottom picture is of past and current members, as well as past, retiring, and new Scoutmaster (Randy).

Laurel went back to college this past weekend. She had an awesome first semester. She not only adjusted to college life well, but she pulled a 4.0. I'm so proud of her. And I miss her.

Even though she's only three hours away, I'm not sure when I'll see her again. She's going on a mission trip to Mexico over her spring break instead of coming home— but I'm so excited for her to have this experience!

Duncan's back at all his regular school. For the week before Christmas break and the week afterwards, he only did algebra 2. Hours and hours each day of algebra 2. Although he's kind of a math guy, he was actually relieved to begin his co-op classes so that he didn't have to do so much math.

In American literature, we're reading short stories, starting with "Bernice Bobs Her Hair" and "A Jury of Her Peers." In American history, he's working on his personal history project, which is lots of fun, and also studying the Reconstruction. Government, of course, is all about the presidential election right now. We managed to watch the GOP debate for an hour last night before turning off the painful debacle. In biology, he's finally made it out of cells and DNA and into muscles and bones.

Duncan's also going to enter a National History Day project for the first time this year. He's working with a friend on a website. He has a lot of work today between now and the Feb. 1 deadline, but I think it will be a fantastic experience. More on that as he progresses.

I've been crafty lately. Honestly, all I want to do is sit around and be crafty while watching Netflix. I made this embroidery for Laurel's dorm room (I ended up taking out the white diamond in the middle):

And I made some bookmarks for my book club friends:

And I hosted a mother/daughter party in which we made these mixed media collages.

My friend has a business in which she goes to people's houses and leads them in making art.

I could do this kind of stuff all day.

But I can't. There's school to be done, a house to clean, meals to cook, parents to visit, and lots of chauffering to do.

And I don't wish away this time in my life for anything, even endless days of creating.

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Tuesday, January 5, 2016

The New Year Begins

Christmas is over already; the new year begins. It's cold finally. On Christmas Day we turned the air-conditioning on so we could turn on the fire place and wear warm fuzzy socks, in spite of the heat. It was 75 that day.

This evening sings of where our family is now. Duncan (15) and Laurel (18) are in the kitchen listening to Spotify (Drew Holcomb and the Neighbors right now). Laurel has bargained with Duncan that she'll make brownies if he unloads the dishwasher and puts the dirty dishes in. I hear murmurs from them every now and then, but they mostly work in companionable silence.

I've just returned from delivering a meal to my parents and visiting with them for an hour or so. Randy is still at his mom's. He's taken a meal and a bag of groceries to her. It's just where we are in our lives. Not too long ago, our evenings were devoted to reading to our three, giving baths, playing games, and doing the nightly toy pick up.

I'm OK with where we are now. Sometimes it's hard, like I know it will be in a few more days when Laurel heads back to college. I cry every time I see that little green VW bug pull out of the driveway to head back to Nashville.

But nights like tonight, I can bask in the sounds of brownie batter being stirred and dishes being rinsed. I can enjoy the last days of the Christmas tree, which normally would be taken down by now. (How can I resist her, "Can't you just leave it up for a few more days until I go back to college?") If I let myself think about it really hard, I could miss the smell of freshly washed little boy. I could miss a little girl in a green flannel nightie snuggled up next to me. I could miss my curly-haired eldest, sprawled out by the fireplace, reading.

It's a new year, a moving more solidly into the phase of young adult children who have their own lives. It's another year that I am tremendously grateful that I can visit my parents every day.

Brownies are baking. Everyone joins me in the living room. We're all on our devices—laptops, phones, PS4—and we call out to one another now and then. The dog curls beside us, in utter bliss that we are all here together. Me too, pup. Me too. It's a good place to be.

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Merry Christmas 2015

Merry Christmas from our family to yours! Here is our Christmas letter, which I wrote after I sent out 1/4 of the cards without it. {Sorry if you were among that first quarter and received a letterless card!}


It’s December again, and this year Duncan’s riding his skateboard barefoot in shorts and a T-shirt, and we’re hoping the daffodils don’t come too much further out. I think we’ll see the Smokies capped in snow yet, though.

2015 was another year of changes for the Smalls. Laurel graduated from high school, went to college, and turned 18. Putting all those major events into one small sentence seems inadequate. In a family that homeschools, graduating a child is especially exhilarating—and life-changing. Graduation brought all kinds of festivities for Laurel, including a trip to New York City with her boyfriend and a trip to Hilton Head with her girlfriends. {I got to go on both the trips, too.} After a summer of relaxation and preparation, Laurel headed to Lipscomb University in Nashville and then turned 18 a couple weeks later. She loves it there—loves the college, loves her suitemates, loves Nashville. We miss her, but we revel in her happiness.

Jesse, 22, lives across town and is still working for US Air while figuring out what to do with the rest of his life. He’s been volunteering as an ESL teacher to adult students for several months, and right now he’s weighing teaching overseas vs. going to graduate school. We’re all staying tuned. In the meantime, we can expect a weekly text from him asking, “Dinner tonight?”

That leaves Duncan, who is enjoying having his parents, all snack food, and the entire house to himself. Duncan is full of adventure, Doritos, and, as always, candy. This summer he and Randy and over a dozen others from their Scout troop went to Philmont Scout Ranch in New Mexico, where they backpacked over 80 miles and had 10 days of amazing adventures. Duncan will turn 15 on Christmas Day, and he’s hoping to get his driver’s permit as soon as possible. We think studying the book might be helpful, but he’s pretty sure he can just go in and take it.

Speaking of driving, Dad, at 90, still is. He’s also still experimenting with apple trees, maintaining a prolific garden, and making daily trips to the supermarket. Oh, and he and Mom flew to Ithaca (NY) in June to meet their 11th grandchild, Maxwell, born to Stephen, Jen, and Kollman. Dad and I also had an amazing opportunity in October to fly to Washington, DC as part of HonorAir Knoxville, which takes veterans of WWII and the Korean and Vietnam wars to see the memorials built in their honor. Spending the day in DC with my Dad and 125 veterans was a truly humbling, exhilarating, and unforgettable experience.

Other experiences have not been quite so exhilarating this year. Randy’s mother’s husband, Ben, had a stroke in June. The next many months brought a steady procession of hospitals, nursing homes, and copious paperwork that kept Randy and his mom, Pat, mired in stress. Ben’s health continued to decline, and he passed away in November. They are still working signing forms and sorting paperwork, but Pat is doing well and breathing a little more freely now, as are we. Christmas break comes perhaps more needed than ever this year.

On a brighter side, Randy made full professor this year, so he’s now Dr. Dr. Dr. Small. He also became Scoutmaster of Duncan’s Boy Scout troop in the fall, so he’s swept up in either filling young minds with biology or with adventures. Either way, he’s pretty great. And while he’s doing all that, I’m teaching four high school classes at our homeschooling co-op program, helping Duncan navigate his high school classes, and sending care packages to Laurel. Also, I really like yoga.

With Laurel and Jesse gone, we have way more rooms in our house than people now. We like visitors. Merry Christmas and a happy 2016. Thank you for being part of our lives.


Merry Christmas and a Happy 2015!

Friday, December 4, 2015

Fall Wrap-Up

Ah, the sweet, sweet sounds of the semester wrapping up.

But first, a confession: I am tired. I feel old. I miss having little children. I miss doing crafts with my littles in preparation for Christmas. I miss shopping with my mother. I miss being able to eat anything I want to without gaining weight. I miss blogging cute things that the kids do. I miss the days before I had a laptop and a cellphone to keep me from other things.  I really do.

These adjustments are the hardest, I think: growing from a mommy to a mom to a mother. Figuring out how to keep parts of myself and let other parts go. Remembering how to feel content, to revel in blessings.

I am blessed: there is no doubt about that. I've put up Christmas these past two days: stockings and books and the old choir boys. The Santa teapot and the paper Mary and Jesus. I baked a batch of cookies and switched out pumpkins for holly. I still have Duncan at home to be my taste-tester and my picture hanger. Jesse pops in now and then for a bite to eat and a quick chat. Randy gave his last exam today and has just one week until he can get a little rest and relief from job stress. And just 10 days until my sweet girl comes home for nearly a whole month.

November was a crazy month— I think that is part of my melancholy. My mother fell, and, although she is fine now, the reality of my parents' aging fills me with desperation. How will I navigate when they are gone?

My mother-in-law's husband passed away after a lengthy illness that exhausted everyone. Randy spent countless hours helping his mom with paperwork and all the minutiae of hospitals and the business of dying. It is draining.

There have been good times mixed in, though. Like days off of school for the Veterans Day parade and frolicking with friends in Market Square.

Like a three-hour drive to a Civil War battlefield with 20 exuberant teenagers and a perfectly blue-sky day for the trip.

American history class trip to Stones River Battlefield in Murphreesboro, TN

Like Thanksiving break with all my kiddos home and lots of extras, too. Looking at these faces, I am reminded again of how very lovely my life is, full of laughter and good food and pretty things— and, most of all, filled with people I love.

Only one more co-op class for us, and then one week left for Duncan before break officially starts. He's going to be basically doing Algebra 2 for the entire week after co-op classes end, as that is the one class that he isn't doing at co-op and so, naturally, is behind.

And that's what's happening in our own SmallWorld as we head into winter and look forward to luxuriating in the quiet busyness of December.

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Friday, November 6, 2015

Wrapping Up October, Beginning November

I always love living in East Tennessee, but October is simply breathtaking here. This has been one of the prettiest falls I can remember. Then again, I think I say that every year. There may be lots of leaf pictures randomly thrown into this post.

{Like this one.}

October brings a semi-annual Court of Honor for our Boy Scout troop. Duncan received several merit badges and two special awards. One is the 50-miler patch, which he received for hiking 50 miles in one trip (Philmont) plus ten hours of service. He also received an Honor Guard patch for volunteering with HonorAir Knoxville, which takes veterans to Washington D.C.

Fall break happened in mid-October, and that just really throws us off. It's so very hard to get back into the swing of things after luxuriating in days without regular activities. I sat on my beautiful sunporch a lot and looked at the leaves.

We have finished reading and discussing The Crucible in American lit. The kids really liked it, and they had fun acting out various scenes. I finally got all the essays graded for my two lit classes and exams graded for my history class. I have to admit: I'm looking forward to the day when I no longer have lesson plans to do! I wholeheartedly adore teaching. But grading? Blech. Like all teachers, I wish I didn't have to.

{On that note, here are some more leaves. Leaves are so much more pleasant than grading.}

The end of October always brings our Soup and Pumpkin Party. We've been doing this for 11 years now, and it's always the highlight of our fall. This year was especially lovely because Laurel and Daniel came home from college for it!

We had a lovely weekend, highlighted by a last-day-of-October hike in the Smokies. The weather was perfect, the leaves were at peak, and I don't think I've ever seen Spruce Flat Falls quite so magical.

Photo cred: Tamyra Parks

Photo cred: Tamyra Parks

It was so lovely to have our girl home for the weekend. I really like this college-only-three-hours-away thing. I was 14 hours away from home when I was in college and only went home at major breaks. I'm happy to get to see my girl a lot more than 3 times a year!

And now we're back to normal this week—whatever that means. I think we're fairly caught up on school work, although I have, as always, a lot of grading to do. Duncan is taking all his classes except for algebra 2 at our co-op. The first few weeks were grueling as we adjusted to a heavy workload, but I think we've figured out a good schedule for the most part. The biggest adjustment has been doing about 6 solid hours of school at least a couple of days each week— but doing it that way allows us a couple of easier days with lighter work to do.

Tomorrow evening my history class is coming over to watch the movie Lincoln, and next week my lit class is coming over to watch The Crucible. The following week our history class is taking a field trip to Stones River National Battlefield in Murfreesboro, and then we'll be on Thanksgiving break with only two co-op classes left until Christmas break!

And that's what's happening as we head into the last weeks of this semester. I'm ready for cooler temperatures, warm blankets, and another long break!

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Friday, October 16, 2015

October Mid-Month Wrap-Up

We're coming into the most beautiful time of year in East Tennessee. The leaves are just barely starting to turn, and next week the Smokies will be a mass of red and yellow and orange.

This week is fall break for us. Duncan and my Dad flew to my brother's orchard in upstate New York for the week. Duncan has been picking apples by day and keeping his three-year-old cousin, Kollman, entertained by night. I think he's having an awfully good time.

Laurel is also on fall break, and she and her suite mates came home for the weekend! I am so grateful for her college experience thus far. These girls are absolutely wonderful. She is so blessed to have made such great friends already!

The girls are from Indiana, Texas, Florida, and Wisconsin, and I'm so excited that they get to see the Smokies today! They are going to Cades Cove, which is one of the most visited spots in the Smokies. It's so gorgeous and peaceful in the fall—well, peaceful as long as it isn't too full of tourists. We're hoping a Friday will be relatively quiet.

So much has been happening in the month since I last updated. Let's see…

Laurel came home from college for the first time in late September, as her boyfriend (who is at a different college in Nashville) was playing at an event at a local coffee shop. We had a great weekend. It was really lovely to see her doing homework in my newly renovated sunporch, which has become my happy place.

That Saturday afternoon we had just enough time for a quick hike because the mountains do call, after all.

And they headed back to Nashville after church on Sunday.

The following weekend was parents' weekend at Lipscomb, so Randy and I headed over. (Duncan opted to stay behind with friends.)  We took Laurel and Daniel out to dinner on Friday night. We planned a bunch of outside activities for Saturday, but the weather was uncooperative. We spent a few hours thrift shopping and bookstore hopping— and eating, of course. In the evening we had tickets to see Brandi Carlile at the Ryman, and she was phenomenal.

The first week of October I had the most amazing experience with my Dad. I had the amazing privilege of being a guardian for the 19th Honor Air Knoxville flight, which takes veterans, free of charge, to Washington DC to view the memorials that were constructed in their honor. The event deserves its own blog post, but here are a few photos. (Jesse was able to meet us in DC for the day.)

Duncan's Boy Scout troop escorted veterans into the airport

Besides my Dad, these other two wonderful veterans, Bill and Boyd, were assigned to me. Here, they are at the Korean War memorial. All three of them are Korean War vets. Dad is also a WWII vet.
At the Vietnam Wall. This is the first time that Honor Air flight has included Vietnam War veterans.

Dad and Jesse at the Vietnam Wall.

Dad and I at the WWII memorial.

Dad at the WWII memorial.

And school. We really do have school around here. Duncan and I have a great schedule, and we're pretty good about getting everything done. Co-op classes are going well, but it's nice to have a break.  Some of my students joined me to see a fabulous production of  Of Mice and Men last week.

Our homeschooling group's teens also worked at Second Harvest Food Bank, packaging cereal and labeling cans. I love our teens! They are such a great bunch of kids.

And that's about all that's going on around here! Today Randy and I are also headed up to the mountains for a short hike while the girls go to Cades Cove, so I'm looking forward to an afternoon of good mountain air. Grading papers and exams can wait another day, right?

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