Friday, April 3, 2009

National Poetry Month: Reading Poetry with Children

“Whatever you do, find ways to read poetry. Eat it, drink it, enjoy it, and share it.”
~Eve Merriam


Did you know that April is National Poetry Month? I find it hard to call myself a "writer" but that is what I am at the core, and even more specifically, I am a writer of poetry. Sadly, poetry is terribly misunderstood because most of us read so much incomprehensible poetry when we were in school and learned to dislike it. During this month, I'll be tossing out poetry suggestions every now and then. For now, here is a repost from last year about poetry for children:

Before I list my favorite books written specifically for children, let me emphasize that you don't have to stick with "kids' poetry" when reading to your children. In other words, some poets write specifically for a younger audience--much of Jack Prelutsky, for example. But poetry doesn't have to rhyme and be about cute kitties or dog poop to appeal to children (although rhyming bodily functions certainly can heighten a child's appreciation of poetry).

Along those lines, I highly recommend A Treasury of Poetry for Young People. This contains poems selected with a younger audience (5th grade and up) in mind by some of the best-known poets: Carl Sandburg, Robert Frost, Emily Dickinson, Edgar Allen Poe, Walt Whitman and Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. There is a two or three page introduction of each author before his/her section of poetry. The illustrations are simple and beautiful. Notes at the bottom of each page give a very brief commentary on each poem. For example, at the end of the familiar Frost poem "The Road Not Taken," the note simply states: "We all know the feel of a cool autumn day, when we can shuffle our feet through fallen leaves and kick up the smells of the season. This is a poem about such a walk, about coming to a fork in the path, and about making choices in our lives."

For a wider variety of poets, I recommend the Poetry for Young People Series. These books are also published by Sterling Publishing, like the one above, but each books features a different poet. Scholastic often has these titles in their monthly sale fliers for home or school. Featured authors include: Robert Browning, Langston Hughes, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and all the ones mentioned above.

One more collection I really love for kids: The Oxford Illustrated Book of American Children's Poems, edited by Donald Hall. This one takes a chronological approach to American poetry, beginning with the Native American cradle song, "Chant to the Fire-Fly" and ending with the contemporary poetry of Sandra Cisneros and Janet S. Wong. I love the diversity offered in this collection: poetry isn't all written by white guys and reclusive women. And one of my personal favorites is included here: Nikki Giovanni's "Knoxville, Tennessee." Even if you don't live around these parts, you and your children can surely relate to Giovanni's ode to the pure bliss of summertime.

Of course, you can get out your old copy of The Norton Anthology of Poetry and just pick out age-appropriate poems from some of the world's best poets of all time. What? You don't have an old Norton's Anthology? Run to your nearest used bookstore or Goodwill and pick one up. Please. You never know when you might need to read T.S. Eliot's "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock":
I grow old. . . . I grow old . . .
I shall wear the bottoms of my trouser rolled.
Shall I part my hair behind? Do I dare to eat a peach?
I shall wear white flannel trousers, and walk upon the beach.
I have heard the mermaids singing, each to each.
I do not think they will sing to me.

But I digress. Moving on to poetry written specifically for children, I must present my four favorites: Shel Silverstein, Jack Prelutsky, Eve Merriam, and Valerie Worth. Does anyone not know Shel Silverstein's works? Silverstein, who died in 1999, is the king of children's poetry. His website is great fun, and you can read all about his works there. You local library will have every book; better yet, buy at least a couple. No family library can possibly be complete with A Light in the Attic or Where the Sidewalk Ends. If your kids hear the word "poetry" and cover their ears, try reading "Sarah Cynthia Sylvia Stout Would Not Take the Garbage Out' to them. They will want to hear more.

Jack Prelutsky also has a gift for luring children in with the absurd. He knows how to engage children with the silly, absurd, and irresistibly disgusting:
Slime, slime,
Savory slime,
you're luscious and succulent
any old time,
there's hardly a thing
that is nearly as grand
as a dollop of slime
in the palm of my hand.

Prelutsky also has a great website, where you can read all about him and his books and get teaching ideas, too.

The poet Eve Merriam loved language--loved the sound of words alone and in combination with other words. When I read her poetry, I imagine how carefully she chose each word. From her widely anthologized "Lullaby":

Purple as a king's cape
Purple as a grape.

Purple for the evening
When daylight is leaving.

Soft and purry,

Gentle and furry,

Velvet evening-time.
 
I have a cassette tape of Merriam reading some of her poetry; when my oldest was little, this was one of his favorites. Check out your local library or amazon.com for poetry by Eve Merriam, including You Be Good and I'll Be Night and A Sky Full of Poems.

One last poet who might be less familiar but who also takes great care in crafting poetry: Valerie Worth. In the wonderful All the Small Poems and Fourteen More, Worth turns every day things--animal, vegetable and mineral--into exquisite works of art. This is a fantastic collection for teaching personification, metaphor and simile, and for emphasizing the power of observation and the craft of language.
The sun
is a leaping fire
too hot
to go near,
But it will still
lie down
in warm yellow squares
on the floor
lie a flat
quilt, where
the cat can curl
and purr.

This is just a tiny taste of the wonderful feast that is the world of poetry. Surf the internet and shuffle through the library bookshelves. If you had a bad experience with poetry in your own schooling, try again--with your child. I promise, you'll both find something you love.

(And check out my FREE creative writing workshop—SmallWorld's WordSmithery— on the sidebar!)

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Living Lovely with Family


This week's theme at Mt. Hope Chronicles' Living Lovely with Family is annual traditions. We have a lot!

January: My Dad's birthday. For some reason his birthday, more than anyone else's, always merits a good family party. Usually my two Tennessee brothers (I also have two in New York) and their families come over to our house, and we have a rousing night of card playing.

February:
• On Valentine's Day we have two traditions. First, I always create a scavenger hunt for the kids that leads them through the house, with little piles of candy here and there. (Jesse no longer participates but appreciates his candy in one lump sum.) And for Valentine's dinner we always have spaghetti because that's what Dr. H. and I had on our first Valentine's day together, when we were poor college students.


• Generally during the last week in February, the daffodils are in flower at Cades Cove in the Smokies. We pick the perfect sunny Sunday, pack a picnic, and take a drive around the loop.

Easter: I used to do a fabulous Easter egg hunt at my house. It was so much work that I decided just to do it every-other-year, and I think this is probably the year I should be doing it (actually, I think I was supposed to do it last year). It really was fun, but now we usually just have one family over after church and have the kids hunt some eggs.


Family Trip: Our new tradition is to take a family trip in May. We like to do this during the second week of the month, after classes are done at UT but before the school are out for the summer. The first year we had a fantastic, amazing vacation at Disney World, and last year we went to Williamsburg, Jamestown, and Yorktown. This year we are planning a much smaller scale trip to a few Civil War sites in Nashville and Chattanooga.

4th of July: Dr. H. and Jesse have been gone for years during the 4th of July because of Boy Scout camp, so the kids and I generally head over to my brother John's house for a cookout and insane fireworks. My brothers should not be trusted with explosives, but it does make the evening exciting!

August:
• New York: For probably nine or 10 years, we've gone to my hometown, where my parents still live half the year, in upstate New York during the first two weeks of August. Swimming, sailing, bonfires, and the comfort of my parents. It's a vital part of my summer. I thought last year would be our last one, as my parents put their house on the market, but it still hasn't sold. We may still have another vacation there!

• Scouting Family Camp-out: This is a new annual tradition—just started last year—but we have our reservations in again this year. This is for our Boy Scout, Cub Scout, and American Heritage Girls families. We had a fantastic time last August and look forward to it again this year.

October: Soup and Pumpkin Party. This is one of my absolute favorite annual traditions. We have a bunch of friends over—around 50—and have a night of soup (everyone brings a pot) and pumpkin carving. Probably more than anything else—possibly even more than our Christmas traditions!—our kids will remember this chilly autumn evenings spent in the midst of dozens of friends, the warmth of soup, and the smell of pumpkin guts.

Autumn in Cades Cove: For years, the kids and I have taken one perfect day in late October or early November to drive around the Cades Cove loop. We take our school books with us, find a warm spot, and read. The kids climb in the barns, and we stop and visit each old cabin, even though we've seen them all dozens of times. Somehow this closes off autumn for us and allows us to welcome in winter.


Christmas and Thanksgiving have loads of traditions of their own. We always have Thanksgiving at one of my brothers' houses and then have Christmas here at our house. We always go to our city's Christmas parade and come home with sacks full of candy. We always cut down our Christmas tree at the same tree farm, and it's usually a balmy, spring-like day. And we absolutely must make and decorate a few dozen sugar cookies, besides all the other cookies we make during December.

What yearly traditions do you have? Share your thoughts at Mt. Hope Chronicles!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

March at SmallWorld Reads

March was a pitiful month for reading. I've posted only six entries at SmallWorld Reads and finished five books.

Books Reviewed
Tramp for the Lord
The Bookseller of Kabul
Paula

Finished but not yet reviewed: New Moon, second in the Twilight series. (I wasn't crazy about Twilight but my friend begged me to keep reading. I'm glad I did. More later.) Also Marjane Satrapi's Persepolis, which I really enjoyed. A mostly off-topic note here: Jesse is taking English 1010 at the local community college. They do the "common book" method there, where all English 1010 classes read the same book (in this case, Persepolis) and each instructor teaches it in their own way. He wasn't crazy about the class at first partly because he was hoping for more literature, but he's ended up really enjoying this thorough approach to one text. And I've been absolutely thrilled (and gratified) with his writing for the class. Phew! That boy can write an essay!

Kids Books Finished: We finished reading Carl Sandburg's amazing Abe Lincoln Grows Up. Since then we've been reading various short books about the Civil War along with Irene Hunt's Across Five Aprils.

Favorite Book of the Month: Paula by Isabel Allende

Books to Movies: Gone with the Wind (As part of our Civil War unit. I've been watching it since I was a little girl, and for the first time I watched it with my kids. Loved the book, love the movie, love that my kids loved it!) and Twilight (I really, really liked the movie. Bella was perfect.)

Currently Reading: The third book in the Twilight series, I say with a slight blush.

Sunday Scribblings:
Dear Past Me, Dear Future Me
Aging

And most weeks I perused Semicolon's Saturday Review of Books, my favorite place to glean new titles.

I am quite sure that April will be a better reading month! If you are looking for something to read, I've got loads of reviews on my sidebar at SmallWorld Reads, from this year's books to ones reviewed in the past few years.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Monday Miscellany

* Only one more week of enrichment classes for this year! This session has gone incredibly fast. I've been teaching two sections of Basic Essay Writing for 5th-8th graders. Each class has 15-16 students, and I've enjoyed all the kids so much. Middle schoolers are so much fun—so interesting and funny. I love being able to teach in the context of a homeschooling support group, where I don't have to follow a school's curriculum—and where we only teach in two 10-12 week blocks!

* I find it interested that without fail, the No. 1 reason people come to my blog via Google is for this post: Fashion of the '80s. Seriously, like 20 people click on that every day from Google. I should spice it up and make it more worth their visit.

* And a couple of contests from fellow bloggers! In honor of her 100th post, Sarah at The Forest Room is giving away a beautiful necklace made by Ugandan widows with HIV. In honor of spring, Lisa at The Berry Patch is having a spring photo contest. She's got three prizes to give away.

* Jesse's out mowing the lawn for the first time this year. I love the smell of fresh cut grass and onions!

* I'm off to take Laurel to the dentist to have two more baby teeth pulled. Braces will be following in the next few months!

And that's all I have to say for now. Except that I need chili oil and loathe the thought of having to stop at the grocery store.


Saturday, March 28, 2009

Spring Where You Are Photo Challenge




Lisa at The Berry Patch is having a spring photo contest. She's got three prizes to give away, and the contest is simple! All you have to do is document what kind of spring is happening in your area this week. I'm not sure that Lisa, who is in Maine, really wants to know what lovely things are happening here in Tennessee this weekend, but here are a few snapshots from our yard today (and my daughter took these--isn't she fabulous?):



Tulips


Grape hyacinths



Violets


The last of the daffodils


Jasmine

Flowering crabapple


The azaleas are just starting


And the redbud is truly breathtaking.

What's blooming in your neck of the woods this week? Go out and take some pictures, write a post, and sign up at The Berry Patch!

Duncan's Kitchen Decor


It's not that I particularly needed my kitchen cabinets and drawers labeled…


But how could I possibly take all 20 signs down after he worked so hard on them—and spelled most of them without any help?



Sigh. At least I know where to find my junk.
I was wondering where it all was.


Thursday, March 26, 2009

Living Lovely with Family


This week's theme for Living Lovely with Family at the very lovely Mt. Hope Chronicles: special treats, random surprises, and seasonal activities.

Special treats makes me think of, well, food. I often bake cookies and cakes. The problem is that I am usually baking these treats to take to some kind of function—church potlucks, scouting events, parties, etc. It always cracks me up and somehow touches me tenderly when I make a batch of cookies and they say, "What are these for? Where are we going?" When I assure them that they cookies are just for us, they are simply gleeful. Note to self: make more desserts.

Admittedly, I'm not particularly good at random surprises, probably because I don't particularly enjoy being surprised—caught off guard or unable to take part in the planning. (I probably need therapy for that.) But my kids do love to be surprised, and I'm working on being better on that. Just the other day my daughter asked me to sometimes not tell her when friends are coming over so that she'll be surprised. "But don't you want to clean your room first?" I asked. "Good point," she said. (She may need therapy later, as well.) But I do have a few surprises up my sleeve. Like yesterday I said to the kids, "Did I mention that we are having spring break this week?" They loved that.

But usually it's just little things, like sometimes I'll swing by and pick up a movie for them and let them watch outside of their "technology time-zone." (Translated, that means that my kids can't normally get on the computer, Wii, TV, etc. until after 4 p.m.) And here's a little something that they absolutely love: The Order of the Queen. This is a special edict issued by the Queen, whereas the day is declared “Game Day,” “Baking Day,” “Movie Day,” or such. No regular schoolwork is allowed. I'll print out an actual edict in an Old English-type font and roll up as a scroll to be opened at the usual start of school (if you have such a thing) or stuck under their doors.

That makes me think about another surprise that we had in college which I think I'll start implementing around here. Each spring we had a special day to look forward to: a surprise day off, with all classes canceled and lots of festivities going on around campus. This would be called "Marvelous Monday," "Terrific Tuesday," "Wonderful Wednesday," etc. depending on the day of the week, which had to be perfectly sunny and delicious. We wouldn't know until that morning, when we'd find an announcement slipped under our doors. I think I am going to have to work on starting a "Wonderful Wednesday" tradition around here…

And finally, seasonal activities. For us that pretty much means being in the mountains.


We live just 20 minutes away from the Great Smoky Mountain National Park, and the mountains hold something special every month. We often take advantage of a warm day in January for a hike. Late February brings our annual trek to Cades Cove to sit amongst patches of daffodils and soak in the blue spring sky. In late March the wildflowers awake and the redbuds and dogwoods color the forests with purple, white and pink. April brings the true onslaught of wildflowers, and May through September are camping months. Autumn is astoundingly gorgeous in the mountains, and we take several hikes during October and November. December is the one month that we don't normally go to the mountains, but of course there is no shortage of seasonal activities during the Christmas season!

How does your family make connections? Share on your blog and leave your post link over at Mt. Hope Chronicles. And while you're there, take some time to peruse and be inspired!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Today Really Is Our Anniversary

You've probably realized by now that we in SmallWorld like to have l-o-n-g celebrations of milestones, and 20 years of marriage is a major milestone. But this really is probably the last post about our 20th anniversary. Tomorrow I'll get back to posting regularly about fascinating topics like dead rodents.

I love what I gave Dr. H. for our anniversary, so I'm going to tell you all about it. While he was away at Cornell U. giving a seminar and eating at delicious restaurants, I was at home frantically scanning photos and going through every single letter and scrap of paper that we ever wrote to each other. Amazingly, we both saved everything, even though we broke up a lot, once even for 8 months. I also read through my journals and emails that I'd saved. I pulled out all kinds of quotes from these writings, like this one written soon after our engagement in 1988, when I lived at home in New York and Randy lived in Johnson City, TN:
"I hope you like the earring. I got a pair at the Cupboard in Cincinnati and I've got one in my top hole, so you'd better wear it. They're our engagement earrings!"
I know my friend Julie will appreciate that one. And this one, written by me to Randy when we were students at Milligan College and newly dating:
"I know that soon there well be the time when we'll have the rest of our lives to be together… really together."
I had no idea what that meant back then, but I knew that he was the one.

Eventually, I narrowed the photos and quotes to 35 pages in a Shutterfly photo album/journal. I took us on a journey in words and pictures across 23 years from 19-year-olds to college graduates to new parents to 40-somethings. And I was soooo glad that the book arrived in the mail in time (barely) for me to take it on our anniversary weekend trip.

We cried a lot.

And, really, this is the last time I'm going to blog about our anniversary. But I just want to say that my cup truly overflows. I am blessed beyond measure. I'll end this the way I ended our book, with a quote from my journal in 2002 that really says it all:

"My life is so much better than my dreams ever were."


Tuesday, March 24, 2009

You Know What I Love About Little Boys?

I love that they simply must poke the dead rodent by the back door with a sword.