A night filled to the brim with food, friends, and pumpkins.
It's probably my favorite event of the year, second only perhaps to Christmas. At the end of the evening we are ready for bed and feeling utterly blessed to be in this village.
Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Day 15: Comfort Food
Day 16: Family Legends 2
Day 17: Sleep
Day 18: Anticipation (AKA, Beauty in Cleaning)
Day 19: Soup and Pumpkins
Friday, October 19, 2012
Thursday, October 18, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 18: Anticipation
Every now and then I come to the end of a day and think, "What was beautiful about today?" And that is what this is really all about: finding beauty even in the humdrum days. I can look outside and see beauty every single second. I can see the Smoky Mountains from my window, for goodness sake. I can look at my daughter and inwardly gasp at how gorgeous she is, how breathtaking. I can feel my sweet boy's head on my shoulder and know what beauty feels like.
Today, I pretty much cleaned all day. Is there anything beautiful about cleaning? I can't even pretend to find beauty in scrubbing the shower or picking fuzz off a dark blue comforter that was washed with a fluffy light green towel.
What's beautiful for me about today is the anticipation: the why of cleaning. Friday is party day! We have a big annual fall party, and in the morning I'll just have a few hours of preparation left to do. I love having a house full of friends. I wish I could invite every single friend I have and even every single acquaintance, but we can only hold so many people in our house and yard.
We started this almost 10 years ago, telling each child they could invite 2 close friend and their families. Well, friends shift throughout the years, but we also made a rule that no one ever gets taken off the list—only new people added. We've lost a lot of people through the years, mostly as they move away physically but sometimes as they've moved away from us and into other friendships, other villages. But we've added a family or two each year, and this year we're especially excited because one of the original families—who have long since moved away— will be visiting and staying with us for the weekend!
And so, while I really can't find anything beautiful in cleaning, I can totally find a beautiful thing in the reason for all the scrubbing and dusting.
Find October's 31 Beautiful Things so far here!
Today, I pretty much cleaned all day. Is there anything beautiful about cleaning? I can't even pretend to find beauty in scrubbing the shower or picking fuzz off a dark blue comforter that was washed with a fluffy light green towel.
What's beautiful for me about today is the anticipation: the why of cleaning. Friday is party day! We have a big annual fall party, and in the morning I'll just have a few hours of preparation left to do. I love having a house full of friends. I wish I could invite every single friend I have and even every single acquaintance, but we can only hold so many people in our house and yard.
We started this almost 10 years ago, telling each child they could invite 2 close friend and their families. Well, friends shift throughout the years, but we also made a rule that no one ever gets taken off the list—only new people added. We've lost a lot of people through the years, mostly as they move away physically but sometimes as they've moved away from us and into other friendships, other villages. But we've added a family or two each year, and this year we're especially excited because one of the original families—who have long since moved away— will be visiting and staying with us for the weekend!
And so, while I really can't find anything beautiful in cleaning, I can totally find a beautiful thing in the reason for all the scrubbing and dusting.
Find October's 31 Beautiful Things so far here!
Labels:
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Three Beautiful Things
Wednesday, October 17, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 17: Sleep
Sometimes, the most beautiful thing at the end of a long day is simply a warm, comfortable bed and the potential for a good night's sleep.
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Tuesday, October 16, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 16: Family Legends 2
I mentioned two days ago that my daughter and I were both collecting family legends this week, her for American history and me for my writers' group.
Click on the link about for her story about the Civil War table; here's mine about my Uncle Max.
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Click on the link about for her story about the Civil War table; here's mine about my Uncle Max.
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Max in the SkyMax knew he really wasn’t supposed to do it, but the idea pulled at him and he couldn’t shake it. Other pilots did it, and his mother would be thrilled. He could see her laughing, her head tilted back, blue eyes on the sky. She’d smile wide and then put her hand up to her lips and close her mouth the way she did, hiding her crooked teeth. Dad would stand next to Mother, looking gruff, thumbs tucked under his suspenders and a cigarette dangling from his mouth. He had to do it.Here’s how it was in the spring of 1943. Max and his crew were issued a new Martin B-26 Marauder bomber, direct from the factory at Omaha. He had to take it on a cross -ountry flight of at least 1,000 miles in order to make a precise fuel consumption test before crossing the ocean, overseas to Europe, to the war. As Max mapped out the course, starting at Barksdale AFB in Shreveport, Louisiana, he found that a perfect flight path just happened to include his hometown of Mt. Vernon, Illinois.And so Max and his crew took a little side trip—just a small one— on their test flight, in what became known as the dusting of his hometown. About the middle of their flight, they came upon Mt. Vernon. They flew low, so low, from west to east and back again. There, Max saw clearly, was the Courthouse, the library, and the Rogers Building. And the folks lived at 600 Main Street, also right on course.As this rumbling, thundering airplane with two big engines flew low over the city of Mt. Vernon, windows rattled, dogs howled, and the townspeople hurried out to see what all the noise was about. In the streets they looked up and involuntarily ducked at the low-flying bomber. Were they being attacked? Had the war come to America? Was it another Pearl Harbor?The plane tipped its wings as if waving, and there on the front porch of 600 Main Street, Helen Firebaugh laughed. That was her Max in the pilot’s seat. She took a violet-edged handkerchief out of her apron pocket and waved ‘til she thought her arm would fall off. “That’s Max!” she yelled to the next-door neighbors and the people on the street. They laughed too and shouted the news on down the line, and soon it seemed the whole town was waving at Max and his crew, flying so low they could just about touch him.The Balwig sisters, who lived near the Catholic church, marched right over to Verner Pigg, Chief of Police, to issue a complaint, but Verner Pigg refused to call Scott Air Force Base since the sisters couldn’t identify the plane. Mildred Metcalf, the librarian, said the vibrations sent some of the books flying off the shelves. She spent the afternoon picking them up and placing them, one by one, back in their rightful spots. She thought about Max Firebaugh the whole time, and about the other hometown boys who were over there already or about to go, boys who once checked out adventure books or asked her, with cheeks flushed, if she’d help them find a certain novel.Back at 600 Main Street, Helen Firebaugh, a poet herself, took out a piece of creamy white stationary, and in her loopy cursive, wrote a letter to the famous American poet Edgar Guest, describing her son’s flight over his hometown as he prepared to go fight overseas.Edgar Guest crafted the poem “Dusting Off His Hometown” in response to my grandmother’s letter. The poem was published in syndicated newspapers across the country as well as The Saturday Evening Post on July 27, 1943.Max Firebaugh, at 20, was in England when the poem was published, thousands of miles away already from his hometown. He’d imagine those books toppling off the library shelves sometimes when the sky was bright with search lights and thundering with the sound of anti-aircraft guns hammering away at a German aircraft. And when the Germans would drop butterfly bombs on base, he’d think about the fluttering white handkerchief in his mother’s hand. He could see how proud she waved.
Family stories: ask about them. Write them down. Legacies are a beautiful thing.
Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Day 15: Comfort Food
Day 16: Family Legends 2
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Day 15: Comfort Food
Day 16: Family Legends 2
Labels:
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Family Life,
Three Beautiful Things
Monday, October 15, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 15: Comfort Food
When my oldest comes home from college, I always build the menu around his requests. This time he requested, among other things, chicken and dumplings. Chicken and dumplings is not on my On the Menu list. My only experience with the dish is not a pleasant one. My mother was an excellent cook, but her chicken and dumplings were truly dreadful. Oh, just horrid: big, pulpy balls of greasy dough in a greasy stew. Wow.
But Randy and Jesse once ordered chicken and dumplings at Cracker Barrel and told me how the dish should be, so I have it a whirl. And YUM! I used this recipe at Back to the Cutting Board. I already had shredded chicken and homemade broth, so I was ahead of the game. The dumplings turned out perfectly. My only change was that I had to keep adding more broth/water because we ended up having 3 extra guests for dinner.
Chicken and Dumplings is going on my menu list and will be on my own personal list of comfort foods, those beautiful foods that make you feel truly nourished, warm, and loved: macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes, chicken and rice soup, baked potato soup, and pumpkin bread.
What's on your list of comfort foods?
Day 1
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Day 15: Comfort Food
But Randy and Jesse once ordered chicken and dumplings at Cracker Barrel and told me how the dish should be, so I have it a whirl. And YUM! I used this recipe at Back to the Cutting Board. I already had shredded chicken and homemade broth, so I was ahead of the game. The dumplings turned out perfectly. My only change was that I had to keep adding more broth/water because we ended up having 3 extra guests for dinner.
Chicken and Dumplings is going on my menu list and will be on my own personal list of comfort foods, those beautiful foods that make you feel truly nourished, warm, and loved: macaroni and cheese, mashed potatoes, chicken and rice soup, baked potato soup, and pumpkin bread.
What's on your list of comfort foods?
Day 1
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Day 15: Comfort Food
Labels:
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recipes,
Three Beautiful Things
Sunday, October 14, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 14: Family Legends
I love family stories. As it happens, my daughter and I both needed to collect one this week: she for her American History class, I for my writers' group. This evening my father told us the history of what is known in our family as the Civil War table.
Want to hear it? I thought so. This is written from the POV of Laurel.
It's beautiful to be part of a family rich in stories. My family story is going to be about my Uncle Max. Check back in a couple of days for that one!
Want to hear it? I thought so. This is written from the POV of Laurel.
The Civil War TableThe story goes that as my great, great, great, great grandfather, Samuel Cummins, prepared to come across the mountains from Virginia to Illinois in 1843, he had to first build a wagon. He needed big, wide planks, so he used a walnut tree. When he arrived in Illinois, where he and many generations were to live, he eventually made a table out of the planks of that wagon.Many, many years later, my grandfather, Opa, and his cousin Bob liked to spend the night at the house Samuel’s son, Gilbert, had built. It was a 2-story house, and top floor was unused at that time except when Opa and Bob came to stay.One winter’s day, when Opa and his cousin were about 11 or 12, they noticed an old table, painted an ugly green, in the bedroom. It didn’t look like an ordinary table, with its spiraled legs. When Opa pushed on it, the top gave a bit. When he pushed on it again, because he was an 11 or 12-year-old boy, the table top opened up to a big secret compartment filled with old papers.Some of these papers were receipts for bags of wheat, coal oil, or taxes. Some were letters in envelopes with old stamps, dated around Civil War time and a few dates before 1860. Opa was an avid stamp collector at the time, and he even cut some of those stamps right off the envelopes for his collection. They even found some land grant papers in which President Millard Fillmore granted 160 acres of land to Samuel Cummins and his business partner.Perhaps one of the most exciting letters was written in 1859 to Samuel. This was the year that a young lawyer from Illinois was running for President of the United States. This young fellow, Abraham Lincoln, was running on the Republican ticket. Samuel was a diehard Democrat, magistrate of his town in southern Illinois and heavily involved in local politics.The letter writer, in a beautiful, slanted cursive, wrote that “If this damned black [evil] Republican is elected, this whole country will go to hell.”That was quite a find for two boys in a tiny town in Southern Illinois in the late 1930s: not just a letter about President Lincoln, but a letter with a couple of curse words in it!Eventually, my great-grandmother, Gladys Riley Cummins, refinished what became known as the Civil War table to a rich, dark brown walnut. It has been in my own grandparents’ homes for all their married life.
It's beautiful to be part of a family rich in stories. My family story is going to be about my Uncle Max. Check back in a couple of days for that one!
This post is Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Day 14: Family Legends
Labels:
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Mom and Dad,
Three Beautiful Things
Saturday, October 13, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 13: Quiet
Don't be me wrong: I am absolutely thrilled to have such a bustling life. But I find myself alone tonight, soaking in the quiet. Randy and Duncan had a star-gazing event to go to for a Boy Scout merit badge. Jesse and his best friend and Laurel and her two best friends went to a movie together. In 15 minutes, Randy and Duncan will be home, and the football game will be on. In another hour, all five of the others will be home. By 11 p.m., there will be 8 people in the house. Some of them are loud. And I love it, I really do.
But right now, I'm loving these beautiful things: the hum of the dryer, the purr of the kitten next to me, the rustle of falling leaves, and the crickets.
Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
But right now, I'm loving these beautiful things: the hum of the dryer, the purr of the kitten next to me, the rustle of falling leaves, and the crickets.
Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Day 13: Quiet
Labels:
31 Days,
Three Beautiful Things
Friday, October 12, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 12: Boy Home
He might be 19 but he's still my boy, and this evening, he came home. His college break starts today. We went to Dollywood for the day, but I had a pork roast in the crock pot, mashed potato casserole ready to stick in the oven, and homemade applesauce ready to reheat. He came in from Nashville right at 6:15, nervous about his Italian midterm. In the three hours since his exam, his professor had posted grades already. He was so relieved to find he'd received a B.
The house feels more solid when he's here. A space is filled in, a seat taken. I watch the interaction among my three children, marveling that they are ours. How far we've come together, this family of ours. Can there be anything better than this pure joy?
Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
The house feels more solid when he's here. A space is filled in, a seat taken. I watch the interaction among my three children, marveling that they are ours. How far we've come together, this family of ours. Can there be anything better than this pure joy?
Day 1.
Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Day 11: Little Girls
Day 12: Boy Home
Thursday, October 11, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 11: Little Girls
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
31 Beautiful Things, Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
We've been a little edgy around here these past few days, a little unsure of how to proceed. My oldest brother, who was 16 when I was born, was rushed to the hospital last Friday, gasping for breath. We've known about his heart problem for a couple of years now, but I imagine he thought he could conquer it. After all, he's survived tractor rollings, walking off barn roofs, and a traumatic brain injury from a bicycle accident. Why couldn't he beat a leaky valve?But my brother, who thinks little of Western medicine, is scheduled for surgery on Friday. I cannot even imagine how much James, who has lived most of his adult life in teepees, campers, greenhouses, or just platforms in the middle of his orchard, despises being in the hospital. He is 850 miles away from my parents, two brothers, and me, in upstate New York. My fourth brother is there, taking care of everything. That's what he does.
And this is a beautiful thing, this nurturing of youngest brother of oldest brother. He knows the best medicine: his own beautiful son. Kollman smiles at Uncle James, probably seeing some of his Dad in his uncle's smile, but mostly, Kollman smiles at everyone.
Day 1.Day 2: Morning Coffee
Day 3: It's OK to Break for Bugs
Day 4: Supper and Cards
Day 5: Running with Randy
Day 6: At Cataloochee
Day 7: A Brand New Thing
Day 8: Alma Mater
Day 9: Writing Group
Day 10: Big Brother, Baby Nephew
Labels:
31 Days,
Family Life,
Three Beautiful Things
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